“The Fine Print”, by M.H. Schrader

 

To The Class of 1997...

 

       Columnist’s note:  In honor of the graduating class of 1997, the column will have a slightly more serious tone this week.  No, I have not become depressed as of late.  It is only temporary.  And emphasize slightly.

“A behind the scenes look at some of the 1,039 pieces submitted into the Barrett Hamilton art show made me appreciate the quality of the 150 pieces selected for display at the center and the 50 pieces chosen for the traveling show.  I observed that the kindergarten through second grade children used mainly water based media such as watercolor and tempera to paint the bright, happy, smiling people and animals in their world.  The third and fourth graders started to make the transition from flat bright colors to gradating tones.  Starting with the fifth grade, the students began using color and technique to express a certain mood.  In this age group, students began painting themselves and subjects that sprung more from the imagination than from learned images.  As early as the sixth grade pieces, I could see the development of each individual’s artistic perception or style.  The main objective of these students was to create a realistic piece.  They did this by using more gradation, light, and shadow.  They also used more controlled or technical media such as pencil, pastel, and pen.  The senior high entries were amazing.  All had mastered their technical skills and were able to manipulate the materials to produce a desired response.  These pieces caused me to think not just how the effect was achieved but the meaning and purpose of their expression.”--Ella Greene, Class of 1997, Mt. St. Mary Academy

       Yes, that’s right.  That was written by one of our graduating seniors.  (I do not know Ms. Greene, by the way.)  I was rather surprised when I read her essay myself.  It’s good; it’s well written, and it uses big words.

       Sometime in the past ten years, I have grown rather cynical when it comes to the intelligence of our youth.  When I was teaching college, I had students who could not write or spell or add or multiply.  Quite frankly, if it hadn’t been for Velcro, I doubt that they could tie their shoes, either.

       Basically, over time, I have begun to adopt the typical adult stereotype about teenagers--they’re not very smart, and they don’t have a lick of sense.  Then along comes teenagers like Ms. Greene who prove us wrong.

       Graduates, here’s factoid number one to keep in mind--adults, because they have lived longer, and have had more life experiences, inherently believe that 18 year olds are merely babes in the woods and know absolutely nothing about nothing.  And, as time passes and you take more of the little baby steps of life, you will too.

       Of course, you won’t realize that you are evolving into adult while you are.  But, like your father and your father’s father before you, you will reach a point in your life when you start talking about how “these kids these days don’t know anything” and start reminiscing about your youth (one of my favorite pastimes of late).  When you reach this point, you are an official adult.

       Looking back on my own high school graduation, I swore that I would not become like so many adults I knew and that I would, never, ever stereotype a young person.  Guess what?  I have become what I swore I would not.  I don’t know how, I don’t know why, I just did.  It’s a genetic thing.  That latent adult gene.

       Looking back, I also have come to realize that I was quite arrogant and cocky when I graduated from high school.  I was 18, after all, and I knew everything about everything.  As it turns out, I didn’t know quite as much as I thought I did.  And I am still learning.  I consider a day to be a waste if I don’t learn at least one new thing.

       Call it factoid to remember number two, then--no matter what you believe, dear graduates, you do not have all of the answers.  Open your minds to the possibilities, and listen and learn from others.  You just might be surprised by what they have to say.

       Oh, and keep your mouths shut.  We don’t really want to hear how smart you are.  That’s a really good way to not make friends.  People do not want to hear how stupid they are, especially from someone young enough to be their child (or in my case, niece or nephew).

       Yes, I will admit, Ms. Greene knows more about art then I do, or will ever probably know.  To me, with my little male brain, all art pretty much looks the same, and, well, it’s all rather boring.  And I don’t mind that I do not know as much as an 18 year old about art.  I would mind, however, if she came up to me and kept telling me over and over and over again how she knows more than I do.  My stupidity is very much a personal thing, thank you very much, and I don’t care to have it broadcast to the world unless I am the one doing the broadcasting.  So don’t!

       I am one who firmly believes that each and every one of us has God-given talents, and that each and every one of should respect each other’s talents and use them to make our world a better place.  Talent knows no boundaries; it is not the exclusive realm of any one group, be it young or old.  (Of course, I do know some women who claim to have exclusivity on talent, or at least that’s what they tell me.)

       I will close with two small pieces of advise.  Adults, keep an open mind.  Despite our life experiences, we do not know everything.  Allow teenagers to contribute their talents to society.

       Graduates--life is like a railroad crossing. So, always be aware of your surroundings.  Stop, look, and listen.  Or else, you might just get clobbered by the train of life.

 

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